Even if they have not physically forced you to have sex with them, if they tried to manipulate you or coerce you into having sex when you didn't want to (like if they say 'you'd do it if you really loved me' or 'you're frigid'), this is still sexual abuse.
No it isn't. It's just rudeness. It's disgusting to equate a violent act like rape with somebody changing their mind.
Using pressure is not the same as using force. Threatening to break up with someone who won't have sex with you is not the same as threatening to kill them. The difference is one of kind, not merely of degree. Ending a relationship over a partner's refusal to have sex is a perfectly legitimate thing to do. The initiation of violence can never be justified.
Dating violence is more likely to happen when the aggressor has been drinking. This often leads people to blame alcohol for the problem. In fact, abusers themselves use alcohol as an excuse for being violent.
Sexual abuse includes .... attempting or having intercourse with a person who is under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
Why are men held responsible for their actions when they are intoxicated when women are not?