My thoughts mimic yours.
When i was first Df those wicked worldy folk took me in. Both literally put a roof over my head and emotionally supported me.
And point 3. Lived in my current house 5 years neither me nor my neighbours have had a jw visit. But just the other day i heard the letter flap go and it was a memorial invite being put thru the door. They dont even knock! They act like the kebab house and just drop a menu!