Posts by Splash

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Parents - How can I tell them what I have learnt and hope they leave too.

by free and happy in

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friends

my husband and i and our children having been left the jws for 5 years now, for me it was how we were treated, the lies elders told about us and the blood issue that really opened my eyes and while all this was happening, my parents watched, supported and even sympathised with us,they said they understood our decision and even though it sadden them we were leaving, they understood.

they have never shunned us and we have a really good relationship with them.. what i don't understand is how they can still stay and play happy families with the people who caused us so much pain and anxiety, without the transfusion my eldest had, she would be dead, it truely was a life saver, why did they not question the religion that was quite happy to let her die for it.. i think the problem for me is that when i was at home, we never really talked, any problems were just glossed over , in fact i don't think i have ever had an indepth jw talk with my parents about how i felt about being a witness which makes it so hard to tell them what i've learnt now, i haven't a clue where to start.. for my husband it seemed quite easy for him to have discussions with his mum and step dad as he never had the same closeness that i had with my parents when growing up even though we were raised in witness families, but then it dawned on me that we never really spoke indepth about anything much so how do i start now?.

so i'm asking for any advice anyone can give, if you have any suggestions i would love to hear from you..

Splash

@Black Sheep

Thanks for those Awake! 1961 references.

I've extracted them here for anyone who's interested

Awake! 1961 Feb 22 p. 7

That now-operating kingdom in heaven will, within the twentieth century, cleanse the entire earth of wickedness... Can you not see that the twentieth century is the century indicated by the prophetic language of Matthew 24, Mark 13, Luke 21, and 2 Timothy 3?

Awake! 1961 Feb 22 p. 8

...is it not only logical that whatever else is recorded in these above-mentioned Bible chapters must also come upon the twentieth century? ... Revelation 16:16 calls it the "war of the great day of God the Al mighty," Armageddon. This war will come in the twentieth century . ...Now is the time to heed Bible prophecy concerning the twentieth cen tury and live forever in the sunshine of God's new world.

Splash

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Elders- Have any of You faded Because of participating in a JC where the Arguments from the accused made sense to you?

by truthlover in

i know the question is long, but it has occured to me that there are a lot of newbies here but before that, many ex elders, some co and do's that are no longer jw's.... did the publishers comments at a jc about the misconceptions,dates, and lack of holy spirit, etc.

make sense to you and did you start thinking about the failed prophecies, fudging the "new light" etc.

which caused you to slowly fade away.. .

Splash

The first JC I sat on, I was newly appointed and barely 27 years old.

A young sister who had not attended in years wanted to come back, but needed to clear her conscience. She faded when a teenager, met a guy and moved in together. Since then they got married - he was never a JW.

I remember the way the elders asked intimate questions - not demanding all the details, but asking when, how often, why now etc.

I actually felt they were being sensitive while trying to understand all of the issues, after all this sister approached the elders, not the other way around.

What I found hardest is that I am a naturally compassionate person. Even now I speak to DF'd ones who come back to the KHall, but this sister was very distressed. She was crying, sad, embarrassed, remorseful, frightened.

Then she was sent out of the room and the other two elders looked at me and asked "what do you think?"

The enormity of that question still resonates with me.

They were asking me what should we do with this young girls life.

Being brought up a JW I had no life experience, no understanding of these situations, and no training. I realised I couldn't pass judgement on her.

We finally agreed that she would not be DF'd, but some restrictions would be in order while she gets back into the congregation.

We never saw her again.

I wish I had, just so I could tell her "sorry".

Splash.

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Do you ever wonder...

by OneDayillBeFree in

if there are any brothers or sisters in your kingdom hall that are mentally awake to ttatt?.

do you ever wonder if some of the posters here (who are still in) are in your hall?

studies, un-baptized publishers, pioneers, ministerial servants, elders?

Splash

There are some waking up in my KHall.

It's a very slow process but I'm hearing comments now from elders and pioneers (among others) which I would never have heard a few years ago.

Splash

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The Infamous May 15th 1984 Watchtower "1914: The Generation That Will Not Pass Away"

by PublishingCult in

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i do not know how the blogger who posted this infamous wt cover (5/15/84) got all the names of those who posed for this magazine cover, or whether the names are even correct, but if he got it right, man, what a provocative statement.. .

Splash

Eventually running out of time altogether, and despite saying:

WTOctober 15, 1988page 4 "The Sign — Are You Heeding It?" "Might it be, though, that the sign could occur over the span of many human generations? No.The sign is to occur during one particular generation. The same generation that witnessed the beginning of the sign will also witness its climax"

They did a 180 degree change to the latest version:

WT April 15, 2010, "Holy Spirit’s Role in the Outworking of Jehovah’s Purpose". para 13 - 14 "How, then, are we to understand Jesus’ words about “this generation”?He evidently meant that the lives of the anointed who were on hand when the sign began to become evident in 1914 would overlap with the lives of other anointed ones who would see the start of the great tribulation.

So it now doesn't even matter if you didn't see the events of 1914, so long as your life overlaps with someone who did.

This is clearly what Jesus meant when he said

(Mt 24:34, 35) . . .Truly I say to YOU that this generation will by no means pass away until all these things occur. 35 Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will by no means pass away.

Splash.

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WT Society, Travel agency? Latest money making scheme?

by dropoffyourkeylee in

jw
friends

recently there was quite a buzz at the local hall of people applying to be a specially approved candidate to attend an international convention overseas.

one person i knew applied to go to the assembly next year in south africa.

she was elated to find she and her daughter-in-law were accepted for the south africa site.

Splash

Thanks Blondie, I'd never seen these before.

I like that the London tour includes a tour around the British Museum.

It's free to get into there

Splash

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The Infamous May 15th 1984 Watchtower "1914: The Generation That Will Not Pass Away"

by PublishingCult in

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i do not know how the blogger who posted this infamous wt cover (5/15/84) got all the names of those who posed for this magazine cover, or whether the names are even correct, but if he got it right, man, what a provocative statement.. .

Splash

@ ScottTerry - When I was growing up as a JW in the 70's, the official word, as I remember it, is that the "generation of 1914" referred to people who were not only alive in 1914 but were also old enough to understand its significance.

That was the case, but as time moved onwards, they kept dropping the qualifying age for That Generation:

Awake! October 8 1968, page 13

“Jesus was obviously speaking about those who were old enough to witness with understanding what took place when the last days began. Even if we presume that youngsters 15 years of age would be perceptive enough to realize the import of what happened in 1914.”

WT October 15 1980, page 31

“It is the generation of people who saw the catastrophic events that broke forth in connection with World War I from 1914 onward ... If you assume that 10 is the age at which an event creates a lasting impression... “

WT October 1 1978, page 31

“Thus, when it comes to the application in our time, the ‘generation’ logically would not apply to babies born during World War I.”

WT May 15 1984, page 5

“If Jesus used „generation ? in that sense and we apply it to 1914, then the babies of that generation are now 70 years old or older. ... Some of them will „by no means pass away until all thin gs occur ? .”

Awake! April 8 1988, page 14

“Most of the generation of 1914 has passed away. However, there are still millions on earth who were born in that year or prior to it. ... Jesus ? words will come true, „this generation will not pass away until all these things have happened ? .”

Splash

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I am totally confoused who is the Faithful and Discreet Slave Class?

by booker-t in

i have been hearing and reading on websites about some "new light" jws are saying concerning the faithful and discreet slave class.

it sounds like the same information they have been saying for years.

i was always taught the faithful and discreet slave class is the annoited governing body members dispensing food at the proper time for the non annoited jws.

Splash

To my mind, the FDS change wasn't the big news although it's what most people focus on.

For me the big news was that the FDS were NOT examined in 1919 and appointed over all of Christ's belongings. According to New Light, this is still future.

There are pretty significant and unexplainable repercussions of this, which is why I think we are now up to May magazines with study articles for July / August on their website, and still no explanation for the poor domestics.

Splash

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I am totally confoused who is the Faithful and Discreet Slave Class?

by booker-t in

i have been hearing and reading on websites about some "new light" jws are saying concerning the faithful and discreet slave class.

it sounds like the same information they have been saying for years.

i was always taught the faithful and discreet slave class is the annoited governing body members dispensing food at the proper time for the non annoited jws.

Splash

If you want it in a simple statement:

(Last) old light - The FDS used to be all of the 144,000 anointed through history since 33CE.

You might recall phrases such as "the FDS and it's Governing Body".

New light - The FDS are those who work at HQ dispensing 'food'.

Put another way, the FDS is now synonymous with the GB. The rest of the anointed do not count at all.

Splash

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Subliminal demonic images in Literature

by Newly Enlightened in

i know that this was covered in 1993, but with newer technology and lots more pictures to deal with....go check out this website.

http://www.watchtowerlies.com/watchtowerlies_019.htm.

if no one wants to believe these as real then check it out in our own literature.

Splash

Yay, just spotted a brand new, never before seen subliminal satanic image

http://www.watchtowerlies.com/watchtowerlies_019.htm

Take a look at the guy running from the police at the bottom of the page.

Now look at the right hand side of his head - there's a face in his hair!

Does it have horns as well? You tell me.

Lolling, Splash.

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Are homosexuals born that way? The March 15 Watchtower seems to say so.

by matt2414 in

15 one brother who was raised in a christian household wrote that for as long as he could remember, he struggled with homosexual tendencies.

he said: i always felt awkward.

it seemed that i didnt fit in anywhere.

Splash

Homosexuality stems from other sinful practices:

*** yy chap. 5 p. 39 par. 9 Masturbation and Homosexuality ***

In fact, masturbation can lead into homosexuality. In such instances the person, not satisfied with his lonely sexual activity, seeks a partner for mutual sex play.

Splash