We'll have to find out if it's allowed?
Why do they need permission from the Filthful and Disgraceful Slavebugger for everything? By the time all the yes's and no's get sorted out, the father is going to be dead. And for what? What are they going to do, disfellowship the father for associating with an apostate after the father is dead?
And what's with this always checking with higher ups for permission? This is with everything. You want a job, you need to check with the Filthful and Disgraceful Slavebugger or with a hounder-hounder? By the time you get cleared, the offer is gone. And so is your income potential. Then you get a job that pays garbage, is lousy, and drains you--and joke-hova blessed you? Or, more likely, cursed you by taking a good job out from under you so you would get this trash job.
Or, with marriage? They are always so permission-seeking that, by the time it clears, the window of opportunity is closed. They find some flimsy pretext that "they are too new" or "too weak" for you, and by the time that gets "fixed", someone else gets the spouse.
If this is what joke-hova and/or jesus wants, then I would rather check with Satan and the Demons instead. At least that way, any "No" would be simply a bad compatibility situation, not simply because someone wishes to hold you up with your life until the opportunity closes.