Hi Scully. I liked your final reply to your former JW friend. It was very fitting. I think that the JWs who lead double lives have a more difficult time leaving the cult than those who are more honest about their JW activity.
I don't plan to reply to Alice's last message because this was the message I sent in answer to her question if I was still a JW:
"Hi Alice,
Why do you ask? After all you contacted me. But in answer to your question: I've been inactive since 1984. So I guess the answer would be no.
If you are still a JW, then I understand your concern and have no hard feelings if you choose to discontinue conversation.
Cheers,
Athanasius"
As I mentioned earlier, Alice led a double live when I knew her and it doesn't look like she has changed. My quess is that she will go down with the JW cult, even though by Watchtower rules she won't make it into paradise.