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My wife just told me to move out...

by nolongerconfused in

because of "religious" differences, she now wants me to move out and "separate"...i said what biblical grounds does she have for her request?.

she couldnt respond...she said she'd rather be beaten up by me than have an "apostate" in the house.... this org definitely encourages conditional love.... i don't know what to do...by the way, we dont have children.

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WuzLovesDubs

Yep. Dont leave and dont preach to her any more. The seeds are there. Let them grow. Now is the time to be loving and caring and in defiance of all the bad things apostates are supposed to be. Im married to a JW still after leaving in 97. (although we are getting a divorce now because he is cheating on me with another JW ironically) We reallllllly had to work on staying together all this time and one of those working points was agreeing to disagree. My leaving eventually helped get his mother out of the org and she was a dyed in the wool JW for 25 years. So give the TTaTT a rest and go back to being a husband. If she cant stand it...she has to be the one to go not you.

Plus if you dont have kids, dont make getting her out your new project. Its also not loving to beat somebody over the head with your beliefs either as the JWs do to everyone else. Thats not a life.

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Past the point of no return...

by metaspy in

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past the point of no return, the final threshold.

the bridge is crossed, so stand and watch it burn.

i've passed the point of no return.

WuzLovesDubs

Good for you! Its very healing to get it over with. I wrote a novel back in 97. I had just read Crisis and I was nutso mad. But I DID send a shitload of those to people I cared about and hoped they would read some of it. That way when it was announced in the hall there wouldnt be all this speculation about why...they would KNOW why. And Im hoping that letter went into a file on me somewhere and somebody else found it one day and read it too out of curiosity.

But it was DONE and I could exhale and not have to wonder or worry or live in that GREY area between worlds any more.

bravo!

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My mother passed away this morning...

by Tatiana in

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for any old-school ex-jws here that remember my many posts about my abusive jw mother and my sister committing suicide because of it...she passed away this morning because she began to bleed out and refused a transfusion.

she had been in the hospital for a month.

it appears she suffered a stroke and wasn't found by the brothers & sisters for three days (they missed her at the meetings).

WuzLovesDubs

Im so sorry for your loss...mostly the loss of all those years as a family the society stole from you, from all of us really. Forgiveness is for yourself honey...usually the accused doesnt acknowledge they did anything to you that you didnt deserve or they deny it all together. If in your heart you forgave her then that will allow YOU to move on. I send hugs to you and the one blessed child who is accompanying you on this trip. You do need to go, for closure and if you have forgiven her, then it is still your mom and you can show your respects.

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He brought her INTO MY HOUSE!

by WuzLovesDubs in

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im stuck in hell here...im stuck in a house i cant get sold, to get the money so that i can get the divorce and get away from this cheatin ass jw im married to.

i know every single time he goes out he goes to be with her ("but only in groups") and even though he was told by the elders to not have contact with her because its inappropriate he continues to do so unabated.

last week i went across the state to attend my sons final state marching competition as a senior...which he never went to ever.

WuzLovesDubs

Im stuck in hell here...Im stuck in a house I cant get sold, to get the money so that I can get the divorce and get away from this cheatin ass JW Im married to. I know every single time he goes out he goes to be with her ("but only in groups") and even though he was told by the elders to not have contact with her because its inappropriate he continues to do so unabated.

Last week I went across the state to attend my sons final State Marching Competition as a senior...which he never went to ever. And while Im 5 hours away he texts me to see when I will be home "because he wants to have some friends over". I said it would be extremely late if at all but if I did come home he wouldnt know I was there so he and the other worthies need not concern themselves with me. He replied "no need for sarcasm Im only thinking about you too". So concerned.

So I come home at 4am to what was a helluva party with groceries everywhere and the obvious signs of a cookout and score sheets for some game they were playing which included, I noticed, my daughters name. I asked her and HE replied yes she joined us for dominoes. But my bullshit meter was redlining...that list of names...

So last night...a week later...I flat out asked him...was SHE one of the people at this party you had while I was out of town?? He hesitated...then said "yes".

ARE YOU F*CKING KIDDING ME????? YOU BROUGHT THIS B*TCH INTO MY HOUSE??????? I was furious!!!! He kept saying YOU are the one who wants the divorce! Really???? And that gave you the green light to put this already existing affair into high gear even though you were told NOT to have contact? Even though she is STILL MARRIED too??? And NEITHER OF YOU ARE FREE TO REMARRY? You can bring your whore around my KIDS?? Into MY HOME????

He is a lying sneaking cheater and SO IS SHE!!! And they have the BALLS to SHUN ME and make a mockery of ME?? In my HOUSE??? He said because they didnt sleep together that it isnt an affair and I can go ahead and call it anything I want to. He admitted sending her a text that said "I wish you were here to see this beautiful sunrise with me".......what??????????? And there is no affair going on there???? He says I only see her in groups...and I said yeah followed by long phone calls, texting, emails, pictures, touches and god knows what else...and that is the POINT.... GOD DOES KNOW.

I reallllllllly want to write to the local elders and have the two of them disfellowshipped. I really fucking do. Im soooooooo sick of the mental torture he and this whole cult have and are putting me through. AND MY KIDS!!!!

I told him that there is no way now after the shitty way he has treated me both during this marriage and even right up to and through this divorce, that I am EVER going to get involved with another man again so that I can continue to be treated like he has been treating me for the rest of my life. I have NO INTENTION of sleeping with anybody and freeing his ass up so he can marry this whore. And SHE HAD NO RIGHT TO COME INTO THE HOUSE OF A MARRIED MAN WHO STILL LIVES WITH HIS WIFE!!!

His reply was not an apology for being the biggest damn hypocrite on the planet and being hurtful and inconsiderate and disrespectful...his reply was that I HAD RUINED IT FOR THEM AND NOW THEY CAN NEVER BE TOGETHER.

I said well being married sure as shit hasnt stopped you two YET HAS IT!!!! I hope they get caught and get disfellowshipped. And it cant happen soon enough!

Vindictive? Hateful? Hell yeah I am...Im soooooooo done.

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what are the JW rules once baptised??

by Kate82 in

on my other post 'thinking of becoming a jw' people mentioned that once i was baptised i would be told / given rules of what i can / cant do, things like: how i act, dress, how i can have sex with my husband??

what i can and cant eat ( according to some research ive done).

i would be really interested to hear as many of these rules now - as i think its too late after one is baptised.. i would be grateful of as many as possible about anything any topic even thouse i havent mentioned.. thanks x.

WuzLovesDubs

Oh girl the fact that you feel all this panic and trepidation about meeting with them is a huuuuuuge flag girl! You are under ZERO obligation to these blood suckers! Dont be afraid you are going to hurt somebodys feelings by saying no go the HELL AWAY to them. Trust me when I say they dont give a shit about you. If you arent bragging rights to them because you are a bible study (aka watchtower tripe study) you arent worth a hill off beans to them and they certainly arent going to lose sleep over you. Their "love" is totally conditional on you playing nice and not questioning anything they say or do or what is expected of you once you are under their subjection. The guilt will only grow in you because as a nice person you feel some sense of obligation. Think of them as the Klan. Turn them away. Shut the door for gooooooood.

Please girl...get away from this cult. We know of what we speak in here...times hundreds and hundreds of thousands of us!

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WuzLovesDubs

Welcome! I nwish you had started posting sooner!

Governing Body = Enron

by WuzLovesDubs in

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sorry i cant seem to get rid of the false start topic :) this sudden decision by the gb to elevate themselves to the right hand of god and in essence demote the entire rest of the remnant reminds me of what the executives of enron did to its employees, yanking their retirement and benefits and jobs out from under them and floating off into the sunset with their golden parachutes.

never giving a flying f*ck about anybody but themselves or the repercussions of their decisions and greed on anybody else.

they only did this because they got tired of getting letters asking "if the remant are all in the faithful slave class, and the fsc writes the watchtower why arent any of the rest of the remnant asked to write articles and why arent they polled if they all are spirit infused by jehovah?.

WuzLovesDubs

Sorry I cant seem to get rid of the false start topic :) This sudden decision by the GB to elevate themselves to the right hand of God and in essence DEMOTE the entire rest of the remnant reminds me of what the executives of Enron did to its employees, yanking their retirement and benefits and jobs out from under them and floating off into the sunset with their golden parachutes. Never giving a flying f*ck about anybody but themselves or the repercussions of their decisions and greed on anybody else. They only did this because they got tired of getting letters asking "if the remant are ALL in the faithful slave class, and the fsc writes the watchtower why arent any of the rest of the remnant asked to write articles and why arent they polled if they all are spirit infused by Jehovah?

Id be VERRRRRY upset if I was of the annointed.

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Governing Body =

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Do You Realize That Almost EVERY Society Publication Is "Old Light" Now?

by minimus in

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now that the "faithful & discreet slave class" has become essentially the governing body since 1919, almost every publication is obsolete and useless!

(i know, they are useless)..... the fds doctrine is a core teaching unique to jehovah's witnesses and now i believe they will have to change all of their understandings that are recorded in the revelation climax book, ezekiel books---every prophetic book written by the society!.

WuzLovesDubs

All they need to do is do a ginormous "search and replace" command on their CD and replace the old well "lit" bullsh*t with the new and improved and equally useless, deceiving and updated kleig-lighted bull sh*t. :)

Nobody in the flock will be the wiser.

For an organization that boasts so much about getting and giving light, those sheeples certainly are left in the dark a lot.

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The Society debunked the rumored new light on the F&DS in 1973

by Leolaia in

this is the summary of the rumored new light from the 2012 annual meeting, as posted by cedars.. the faithful and discreet slave was not appointed at pentecost 33ce, meaning that there has not been a continuous line of members of the slave class on the earth down through the ages.

the slave class was only appointed for the first time by christ in 1919.the faithful and discreet slave is a small group of anointed brothers during jesus presence serving at watchtower headquarters who are directly involved in the preparing and dispensing of spiritual food.

the individual members of the governing body are not the faithful and discreet slave.

WuzLovesDubs

"Despite founding the Watch Tower Society, Charles Taze Russell was not part of the Slave Class because he was not alive and serving at Headquarters when Christ made his selection in 1919."

Boy is Russell gonna be pissed about this anarchy when he comes out of his grave on Halloween for his annual haunting of the cemetary where he and his pyramid reside. He's gonna be like "wuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhh?"