As I was taking my shower this morning I was musing about certain posts I had read the day before. The one about the tampons just tickled me to no end. Crazy stuff people will do to enforce whatever crazy ideas they have about human sexuality. How sexual can anyone be about a tampon?! I know I know there may be a few crazies with tampon sexual fixations, but cmon.
Anywhoo, I also mused on some comments that I had read in that topic and a few others. These were topics that were about certain difficulties that some here have gone through with the jdubs. I believe that these are valid experiences and that if some wish to bring them here to purge themselves, to make themselves feel better, not crazy, not alone (cuz some out there may have gone through something similiar), to get some sympathy, to get some hugs, to just feel normal (dammit!!) they should and have every right to do so. Getting back to the comments I was focusing on. Those comments are what I call the "Move On" comments.
Someone will relate their experience and sometimes or more than not, one of the replies will be along the lines of "maybe you need to not harp on the bad stuff and just move on". So I was thinking, what a load of crap! Do you always show your ass? Are you always this uncaring? Or is everyone's feelings of hurt vastly unimportant compared to your own? I hope to God none of the MoveOners are at the phone when a rape victim calls "you just got raped? you need to move on honey" You must be one who tells the holocaust victium who lost most of their family "Move On". Or tells the black community "yes we know about slavery but that was over a hundred years ago - move on". I could go on and on but you know what I'm saying.
In closing to my mini rant (I had so much more good stuff in the shower ) if you have a move on comment to make, know this, it's not helpful, it shows how uncaring you really are and might I just suggest that you just "Move On".