I probably should take him up on the challenge too, since my name would probably come up if him and Lloyd were discussing the goings-on at JWN.
Dear Tibor,
For the record, I have never subscribed to the green screen theory. I believe what sparked it was misplaced curiosity as to whether Lloyd had been kicked out. Not sure if I said this out loud, but I felt that it wasn't in Dijana's nature to kick Lloyd out like that. As it turned out, both of us were correct and even when Lloyd was living in Zagreb he was still using the bunker for a period of time. So, I think we can move on from the green screen controversy, since it was only a minor point to begin with and only a certain handful of people were espousing it. You were right, and the handful here who thought differently were wrong. So, deal or no deal?
You have stated you would answer questions if written to you in a respectful manner. In your reply to Jonathan Burger, you kept refusing to answer things you did not know or had proof for. This is great, and if so, feel free to give me the same response if applicable. So, I am going to try to ask things you definitely would know, such as your thoughts on certain matters.
I posted that exchange between you and Producer Bob on Lloyd's Andrew Gold interview's livechat. Do you care to explain how PB and Kim were the main reasons Dijana was "unwell" relative to what Lloyd did to her last year? Remember, the Gold livechat was on 14 April 2022, thus 2 and a half months from the time of the livestream. Is this firsthand knowledge you've obtained from Dijana herself or was the information from Lloyd? If you did speak to Dijana, was Lloyd in the room? Was it a group chat where Lloyd was present? I ask because it's important to know that she was not under any pressure to lessen any of the blame that was rightfully his.
How did you hear of Lloyd frequenting sex workers? Kim's statement? Lloyd's livestream? Or was it before? How do you feel about it, particularly of his statements regarding dating and seeing sex workers in Thailand?
Have you and Lloyd had an in-depth discussion of what his activities in Thailand entailed as well as his infidelities including sex workers? If so, would it be too much to ask for you to give a summary of it?
How did you feel about what Lloyd did to Dijana? There are many so I'll bullet point them. Please do keep in mind screenshots exist supporting all of these questions:
- Lloyd's open marriage proposal as outlined in his email
- The WhatsApp chat where Lloyd claims he still loves Dijana, "despite all your faults" (Note: This was sent from him in Thailand in response to Dijana catching the pics he took with the sex worker and asking for a divorce)
- Frequenting sex workers "2-3 months for 3-4 years"
- Lloyd telling the world that Dijana didn't sexually satisfy him (Note: Kim did NOT leak this. Lloyd did in the livestream)
- Lloyd's history of infidelity ranging back to 2008 when he was sexting girls as he put it.
Knowing Dijana personally, why do you think she released all this information to third parties?
What are your personal concerns regarding this whole scandal? Have you expressed these concerns to Lloyd and if so, how did he respond?
What are your concerns relating to the damage this has done to Lloyd's business, i.e. Ipsilon Media of which you are a paid employee of? Have you directed any of this to Lloyd? What has been his response? Have you advised him upon any of his subsequent actions?
Do you feel that Lloyd is in any way compromised by his activities in Thailand, and do you understand the way this looks to others as a CSA activist and sex worker enthusiast leaving his wife for a solo trip there?
Do you feel that you being employed by Lloyd and thus financially dependent upon him has influenced some of your decisions and behaviour after the livestream? Do you think your opinion might be compromised? Why or why not?
Have you personally done anything to help Dijana and the girls completely independent of Lloyd? This can include counsel, company, gifts, dinner, basically anything you can think of to make her feel better and supported.
Being a natural born Croatian national, I feel you'd know more about the Croatian legal system than anyone here or Lloyd. What are your thoughts regarding the validity of Lloyd's "criminal lawsuit" as filed in Sisak Municipal Court? Is Lloyd really trying to hold foreign nationals to the Croatian Criminal Code for alleged crimes committed outside Croatia's borders? Or is it something else we just don't understand about the court system there?
Do you feel it is valid for Lloyd to call the seven people he is suing "criminal defendants" when none of them have been served or summoned by the Court?
Regarding the 4 September 2022 statement by Lloyd (I have screenshots if you dispute this): Lloyd said he would chase Kim and the others down until he was 84 years old or until his dying breath if necessary. He stated he would travel to Australia amongst other places to enact this "justice". What are your thoughts regarding these threats? Is Lloyd right to pursue them this way for 40+ years? Do you think it helped your business or did it only stir things up worse?
What are your thoughts on Lloyd's actions in the aftermath, including continued threats (screenshots will be provided if you are wondering), petulant behaviour on social media and him intentionally seeking conflict? Does this help his activism or more accurately, business?
Can you point to anything Kim or any of the other 7 people being sued has said that is false? Lloyd refuses to answer this, but I thought you might. If you can bring something to light that is demonstrably false, it would go a long way toward getting a retraction and possibly even an apology from the offending party.
Did Lloyd tell you how he dated a sex worker in Thailand? Do you know what Lloyd meant by saying he met more than one sex worker there, and the female in the pic that was circulated was not one of them?
Has anything Lloyd presented either to you personally or otherwise factually untrue? Please provide examples if so.
Do you feel that Lloyd has contradicted himself in any way regarding the livestream vis-a-vis the 4 February FB statement and other statements made on social media?
Why have you chosen to remain in Lloyd's employ? Is it solely for the money or do you have other interests in supporting Lloyd's work?
Where did you get the term "JW Mindset" and its definition from? Was it from Lloyd, or have you come to these conclusions yourself with no influence from him?
I'll end it with this: In a way, I feel you've been caught in the middle of all this exJW infighting. However, you are firmly on Team Lloyd with your various statements made and of course the video you made. I truly hope you can come to peace with this. For someone who has actually met all members of the Evans family, I hope your association with them is beneficial and not one-sided towards one party and their interests. It is my sincere hope that you can move on from Lloyd Evans and obtain employment that really utliises your talents. Fair is fair, and should you have any questions please ask away.
Signed,
Self-Indulgent (Lloyd called me this once. It was quite flattering coming from him)
