You do know that her kids do not love you, and that if she does leave for you that her own children will never speak
to her again which means she has to be able to let her kids die in effect.
Go to the bake sale. https://www.google.com/search?newwindow=1&biw=1280&bih=649&tbm=isch&sa=1&q=single+catholic+women+over+40&oq=single+catholic+women+over+40&gs_l=img.3...24567.28034.0.286184.108.40.206.0.0.0.152.840.0j6.6.0....0...1c.1.64.img..2.1.151...0i30.YNuL-aQRgKw
Or join a dating site, seriously you can even specify that no JW should apply