I ve never been a fan of revenge , so I guess thats all it would be
How sad to be a part of this , poor people.
Thanks for the advice , I wont go to her Elders then
- If you stay with her and get closer the elders will find out eventually and it will lead to the same.
- If you leave her she'll still be indoctrinated in the cult.
- If you call the elders and spill the beans it may lead to her waking up from the cult.
You can't really win, it seems to me, so why not help her get out of this mind controlling cult?
You're not acting in revenge. In the elders view she's already done the "dirty" by heavy petting, passionate caressing and kissing, and what-not in nothing but underwear.
If the elders ever find out she did this it will lead to the same thing as if you told them what happened. She'll resent you either way. So the sooner it gets resolved and she can start waking up to this cult the better.