I'm a middle aged man. I dated a JW lady for 3 months ., We never had sex, just made out , half naked , well everything except underwear .
She has been a JW for 40 years ., Was married to a jW but he committed Adultery 13 years ago so they divorced
Her kids 20 , 24 years old are of course JWs
To cut a long story short . I went to a couple of meetings and after 1 bible study , I knew that this was anything short of a joke . Im not deeply religious but am Catholic , I belive in the Catholic doctrines and live a life of what I consider high morals , but I am not a regular church goer .
Anyway , after I told her there is no way I could convert , she told me we could no longer be together and ended the relationship , 1 hour after I told her I could nt convert, She knew I was never intending to convert, I just wanted to find out her beliefs .She was happy about that and always told me its ok that I would nt convert .
Now, I am the first real contact she has had with a " worldly" and I really think she is doubting her loyalty to the Watchtower . She saw real love in me , unconditional . Ive shown her some BBC and UK.GOV reports about the abuse and cover up of the rapists by the Watchtower , over 1000 in Australia alone and many more genuine News reports , and some point she half believed but now repeats and repeats that they are all lies .
Ive shown her reports form Psychologists and their views on Shunning , again its all lies .
Ive asked her if she would refuse her children a blood transfusion if they were about to die , she just said that they would be happy after the resurrection , I even showed her online a copy from the " Awake of 22 May , 1994 " , She dismissed this as a fake and said that was disgusting to let 11 children from the ages of 11 - 17 die, then she got home and dug out HER own original copy and replied " they did well " ( meaning the kids)
Sometimes , I really feel as if Im getting through to her , then she blocks , saying its all lies , and the change in doctrines happened because " they saw the light " , its exactly as I was told she would react
So , my question to anyone here is , What or how could I help her ?, what would plant a seed in her mind ? Ive told her that her family would be so so much more happy to know they could love their family and friends unconditionally and she doesnt answer that for a few seconds , then says She will never change , she cant .
The fact she still talks to me and meets me , shows me that she has nt made up her mind ?
Any help would be gratefully appreciated