ARRGGH!
I'm sorry, I am only 7 minutes in. But are they actually asking you to rat out your daughter, if your daughter did something they consider 'bad'? Like you would throw your own daughter under the bus to save your own skin? (I realize SOME * (sorry Adamah, I know it ruins your quote, but i need to be clear and I know that not all do such things) jw parents do this, as do siblings,etc, because that is what they are taught... )
I had to stop to rant about that for just a moment, because I'm pretty sure I would have gone off on them for the audacity of asking something like that of me!
Okay... going back to it...
Love to you AND your daughter, and your little one,
tammy