Wow, AGuest, I think you need to calm down.
I am calm, dear NC, truly (peace to you!). I'm actually not an excitable person at all. But your comment made no sense, nor did the one after (I'll get to that in a bit).
You are attributing motives to people, and I'm kind of surprised you have come to those conclusions.
I'm attributing motives? And you're surprised at MY conclusion? Dear one, YOU made the statement concluding MY motive. Do you not see... no, I guess you truly don't. Well, okay...
You also are throwing around the 'lying' accusation quite a bit. Have you ever heard the saying "shooting a squirrel with an elephant gun?". My brother used to be this way. He would take the mildest slight as permission to just come at a person with both barrels. I used to use that phrase with him when he seemed to overreact to small things.
I'm sorry but I have to ignore this. I truly do. Because if you can see me in that scenario... but no others... then I have to move on past it. Please forgive me.
As far as what I was saying about Cofty, and extending it to myself, I DO think that some past spirituality was dismissed quite easily. Now don't go ballistic on me, because I am telling you my viewpoint. Okay?
Okay...
I also said that others had a tendency to do that too---so I was not focusing on you specifically, but maybe using your post as a springboard to get an idea out there.
Okay...
I have run into this A LOT on this board. I also pointed out that we all dismiss the spiritual experience of JW's, Mormons (even though Q wrote a very moving story of a very spiritual moment he shared with others as a Mormon), and even Scientologists. That is acceptable too. It's only when we call some people's spiritual experience into question that it is viewed an intolerant, or insulting. I think that is interesting.
And what "spiritual" experience would that be, with regard to me, please?
When I was a JW, I was a true believer and very spiritual. I mediated, read my bible, made connections, prayed with a very open and receptive heart. There were times that I KNEW that Jehovah's hand was leading me. I would be filled with peace and confidence and a strong sense of protection. I don't think that most on this board would accept that as authentic, cuz it was the JW's, therefore my seeking was counterfeit as were my experiences, and I was somehow being blocked. I was not a person that thought of the governing body as my mediator, but I thought of Christ as my mediator. I know some here think that JW's dismiss Christ, but I did not. I thought about him a lot. I tried to emulate him in the decisions that I made. I hated the meetings, but I loved my time of meditation and prayer. The rest I felt was just an obligation, but not my personal relationship. That was mine. I did not have the same experience as some on this board did. I really worked on my relationship with God and his son.
Okay... but I don't think we have the same definition of "spiritual." In fact, I know we don't. For you, it is an abstract definition of the experience(s) of some; for me, it is a reality. For everyone.
Now would it be proper to tell me that you understand why I'm no longer spiritual because of the religion I belonged to?
Ummmm... I am not the one saying anyone is no longer spiritual. Never happened. To the contrary, I am the one saying you are spiritual... regardless of religion. But... okay...
Well, judging by your post above, I believe you would, because you will talk about false teachings. And that is the point. I think there is some false teaching going on right here---can I say so?
Of course you can.
Or would that get me into trouble and painted as an angry atheist?
Not with ME. And please... oh, please... show mere I have ever called you... or any other... an angry atheist. I don't believe the anger that is displayed by some has anything to do with them being an atheist.
You say so quite freely when addressing teachings that don't coincide with your understanding.
Again, please... PLEASE... show me were I have ever said such a thing. PLEASE.
But I suspect that if I say it, it could become a real problem.
You would be mistaken. Dear NC... I rarely address folks from the POV that they're an atheist. I have, yes, but either to ask a serious question... or to respond to something such a one has posed to ME. Otherwise, I don't even go there. Take this thread - it's about faith. I addressed it to the Household of God, Israel. Why are WE even having a discussion? Because YOU came HERE.
Now, true, I did post comments on the "Truce" thread... but that was because the subject was a truce - not faith, belief, non-belief, etc. I also started a thread about a news article. Had nothing to do with faith, belief, non-belief, etc. And yet, on BOTH threads... my faith, belief, etc., was called into question. Why was that, dear one?
I believe my experiences were very real, as the experience of others seems to be real. However if I had a heart that open and that accepting, how did I end up here? I was not always a JW. In fact, I probably spent most of my non-JW life more like you than identifying with any religion. And yet here I am. An atheist. My point being, that if this god draws those to him that are open, then why was I not drawn?
NC... hear me: I am not the One you have to ask this. I am not the One who can provide you with an answer. Why are you asking ME? I mean, I don't get it: you (and others) repeatedly say I don't really know jack about these things. And I vehemently AGREE with you. Yet, here you are... asking ME. WHY??? Why not go to the One who can tell YOU what you wish to know regarding this?
The JW's did not 'stumble' me or turn me off to God. I was actually quite content, if not with the culture, then with my relationship with God. I did not set out to disprove gods, or to become an atheist. In fact, I was the last person to realize that I actually HAD become an atheist. And it wasn't anger driving me, but a connections of facts and logic that crept through. It felt like it happened instantaneously, but when I looked back, I realized it had been a long time coming, I was just in denial.
Okay...
Now will my past spirituality be invalidated because I came to a different conclusion?
I don't think so. I mean, if you're asking me and not being rhetorical, my answer would be vehemently, strongly, absolutely... no. But again, we have different understandings as to what it means to BE spiritual. You look to man's definition - I don't.
I think it may, if not openly, then in people's minds.
Some, perhaps. I mean, the WTBTS folks don't believe I'M spiritual. But that's because I don't fulfill their definition of spirituality. The truth, though, is that if anyone is lacking in "spirituality", it's them. But even they are spiritual... because we ALL are.
Because that's how it would have worked for me when I believed. I would have thought there must have been something defective with the other person's faith or spirituality, because there is NO WAY if they knew TRUE spirituality they would have become an atheist.
But that's how it would have worked for YOU... and perhaps even some others (including those who think like you and some who don't). It didn't work that way for me, then... and still doesn't now. I don't think in terms of "defects" in people's spirituality. If there is a "defect", it might be in their FAITH... but not their spirituality. And no, the two are not synonymous.
Okay, moving on to the next set of comments.
Peace to you!
A slave of Christ,
SA