Only if the feelings are reciprocated by the woman.Agreed
But is this caution because you come under headship to the one you chose in most cases ?
When Christian men I know date or marry non-Christian women, in most cases (in the few that I know), the woman becomes a Christian. But usually when the Christian women I know date or marry non-Christian men, the man rarely becomes a Christian
Does this make the man the spiritual head ? Do you fall under headship(or at least attitudes and idea's ) to the man you marry or not ?
Deal breakers are things women refuse at the very outset because they can't live with it in the future
You should not be pressured into situations that are uncomfortable to your nature and true inner feelings