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Progress ( I think? ) in helping my wife to see the "truth"
by stuckinamovement 93 Replies latest members private
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steve2
Wow - there are a lot of newbies on this forum with spouses still in the organization who will find this thread very helpful.
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Oubliette
Siam, I just read your recent update from August 15th, 2013. Great news on the progress!!!
Keep up the good work, you're an inspiration to many of us!
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dissonance_resolved
This thread is very helpful to me too-it's so painful to watch my husband continuing to try to indoctrinate our children. It's good advice to be patient, but it takes a terrible toll mentally, physically and emotionally.
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Doubting Bro
Siam,
I'm glad this was BTTT because I've been stuck in limbo for several years now. One foot in (for my wife's sake) and my brain OUT. As I sat looking around at the AGM, I saw the frenzy the rest of the crowd was in. I've read all the garbage postings on facebook and instagram. I feel like I'm at a breaking point.
Seeing this update as helped me make it through another day. Perhaps I've been too patient. It's frightening to think that I could lose my wife & kids as many of you here have. I've got to focus. I'm going to re-read this and hopefully get some points I can apply. I really think I'm at the point of a complete breakdown.
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TheListener
Doubting Bro, keep hanging in there. Are your kids old enough to make their own decisions or still young? When I faded I made a plan for myself and followed it the best I could. It wasn't perfect and it didn't stop all of the arguing but at least I felt I was on a path and moving forward. Even though I was moving forward really slowly. If you would like to talk in more detail please PM me.
I was and still am concerned with my spiritual freedom and the freedom of my kids. I can show my wife my example of spiritual freedom and happiness but I can't make her join me. The same goes for my kids. Although with them I have been much more successful.
PM if you'd like.
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Captain Blithering
Wow . Whole thread read. Inspired but sighing at the thought of another couple of years of waiting... Hope my story works out the same as yours mate.. Well done!
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flipper
SIAM- Great news ! Keep the great work up in regards to opening your wife's mind. Good job
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stuckinamovement
Thanks Flipper.
Its funny if you asked her today if the wts is a cult.....she would say yes. I am definitely done, and she is mentally out, but physically still in a little. We will be DA'ing within 6 months I bet. It's been a long painful ride to this point but when what you believe is fundamentally wrong, pretending it is right doesn't make it so. Our marriage is stronger than it was 3 years ago, and we are truly there for each other.
SIAM
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steve2
SIAM - I love your updates!