SWEETFACE- It sounds like you have an aversion to E-harmony.com for some reason. The point is that they match you up based on 29 points of similarity you have with someone else. They give you multiple choice questions to answer so ONLY those that answered similarly to you will be matched with you and their information sent to you. So it's not like a blind shot in the dark- you essentially know you are meeting someone with similar values as you have. With the bad experiences you say you have had - I would think you would want to be more particular. Just a thought.
STLL IN 74- I know you are facing quite a quandary there friend. It is tough when your mate wants to have children- but raise them in a cult. Like you , I had many friends in the organization - I lost many after stopping 5 years ago, but I have gained more authentic friends since, those with real unconditional caring ! If and when you make that final move- you will find the same also. Hang in there buddy, just take it one day at a time !
JOHN DOE- I'm sorry you are depressed . Don't let the bottle take you over though. Keep your chin up friend , hang in there. Is anything depressing you in particular ?? Peace out, Mr. Flipper