Let's look at the facts, post mortem.
I am glad that you are proud of yourself. Keep patting yourself on the back, if that is what you are in this for. You are receiving your reward in full. Enjoy it while it lasts. Self-righteousness only get you a brief high.
The same for Odrade and Outlaw.
I even understand the reason that Oompa is open to your comments TODAY, not at that time. This is understandable considering the nature of his disease. After the fact, we are the best at kicking our own ass after the light of day dawns.
I really appreciate all of those who were on the side of compassion. Here is a bit of the email I sent to my com padres:
"Don't let the armchair quarterbacks get to you. We were on the right team with Oompa. What the mean idiots don't get is that he was drunk, suicidal, off of his psych meds, in a blackout. The stuff they said might have some credence, BUT TIMING IS EVERYTHING! He had a Jeep running in the garage and a shotgun on his lap that thankfully jammed. We were just trying to get him to survive the night.
What they did was tantamount to yelling JUMP to someone on the roof of a building. How stupid can they be? Do they think we just want to mollycoddle him? Hell, I just wanted him to survive the night so I can kick his ass when he is lucid and can remember it.
Well, the idiots can bask in their supposed glory now, but we reached our objective. He is alive today. Thank you for being a loving, compassionate person."
If Oompa had only had your comments last night, he may have been a "true" post mortem. Could you live with that responsibility? You would probably just say: "not your problem."
May Outlaw, Odrade, and BizzyBee [fill in the blanks with the most vile comments that would be restricted by the moderators for good reason]. You would have made great elders.