well, this is a really interesting discussion. Rosalee, honey, you are condescending and patronizing and you are one of those people who make themselves feel "more than" by trying to make others feel "less than." We're all pretty happy where we are. Why are you here? I think that has been asked several times and you haven't answered the question. Why are you posting on this website? If you really truly believed in the WTBTS you wouldn't be sneaking around a site populated with apostates; you'd flee in horror instead. Are you trying to prove something to yourself by putting others down? Are you starting to be uncomfortable with your religion, so you are trying to prove you still believe by flaming the non-believers? Or maybe you're just bored and nasty and want to stir the pot? Are you counting time for hanging out on the JWD?
as for the original question, on the whole I'd say (from 32 years in the org.) that most JWs are pretty nice, but only conditionally and they belong to an organization that is so perfectionist they have to live double lives, which leads to mental illness, or at least a lot of depression. I had good friends in the org., but they abandoned me when I stopped being a JW. No such thing as free will for JWs, no matter what they say.