All the right things coming from the wrong person or going to the wrong person is useless. Easier to say things that attract me.
Men who smell good (not perfumey good, man good). Not condescending. Able to think outside of the box. Not close minded. Not a bigot. Smarter than the average bear. Ambitious, but not to the exclusion of having a life. Good kisser. Kind.
I am more likely to go for Jack Black than pretty boy types. A little bit of caveman with a sensitive soul.I can like a pretty face, but not so pretty wouldn't scare me off. But that is ME, and I am not women. I am woman. Just one. And the point is that every woman wants something different. So find the woman that wants the man that you are. Not the one you wish you were, plan to be some day or anyone else. Just you.
BTW, I LOVE flowers. HATE red roses. I like daffodils, daisies, and tulips. Simple, unpretentious. Red roses lack imagination, and (to me) look guilty and thoughtless.