Well anyway. If anyone is still interested in knowing (i.e. if this thread hasn't already been completely overrun by lunatics) what a woman wants, what got my attention was sexy flirtatiousness, and utter confidence on the part of the man, a total "bad boy," but as soon as we started talking, he made it clear what he wants and who he is, and didn't play any games with me or my heart.
He listens, he gives his opinion, he doesn't always try to "fix" my problems, but just understands that sometimes I just need a listening ear. He is who he is and is not afraid to be himself. He is fun, funny, spontaneous, independent, and responsible. He doesn't take himself or others too seriously, but speaks his mind on important matters and understands when there's a time to be serious. He knows and values the importance of communication.
He isn't afraid to tell the world that I'm his girl, and is man enough to make sure I know it too, so I don't run off and look for what I want and need somewhere else.
Be yourself, Abandoned. Just be yourself, and learn to love yourself, and you will find the woman who deserves all that you are because she appreciates all that you are.