Many many years ago when I was dating my JW wife, after one meeting she complained that I had not underlined my Watchtower, and that people
notice things like that. I commented, better than others did. I told her that I never write in my books.
That should have been my sign to run from her as it was a sign of a miserable marriage ahead to where someone cares more about what the people think than the reality of a mate.
And she has a million pens of different colors to underline and she spends time before getting dressed on Sunday morning preparing and then makes her and us late. Go Figure.