Funny think about shunning, you know in your heart that something about it just isn't right and yet they convince you.threaten you to do it.
I remember the heartfelt feeling I had for this one sister that got disfellowshipped for smoking..I so wanted to talk to her but was advised not to..I feared they would kick me out of the religion if I did so I didn't. But my heart was telling me it was so wrong and I should talk to her..should have followed my instincts..
I often wonder if these people doing the shunning (including parents or children JW's) are broken hearted and in pain because they too are under the WTBTS spell..I wonder if they too feel something just isn't right about it (shunning)..
It's sad that the WTBTS is able to interfere with so many families and their lives..
Good luck on your move..
Snoozy