I was reprimanded for wearing ski pants under my dress coat in the middle of January. They prefered that I wear stockings with my boots under a dress, and freeze my bum off in the bleeding cold winters that are normal in Quebec.
Posts by Scully
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29shock horror! WITNESSING ATTIRE NOW CONDONES OPEN-NECK SHIRTS FOR MALES!
by steve2 ingo to jw.org right now friends and you will see a young male jw witnessing in a rural setting with publication in hand and - take careful note - wearing a crisply-white open-neck shirt.
bring out the carnival, light the lights: the organ ization is kicking itself into an ongoing casualization of its rank and file.. in the 1960s through 1980s i know brothers who dared to attire themselves sans ties who were reprimanded or worse.
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Hubby went out in service today.
by KariOtt ini can't believe hubby and sis in law actually went out in service today.
when he left this morrning i reminded him to inform those who didn't slam their doors on them that if they join your cult that this will be the last christmas, holiday and birthday they will be allowed to celebrate.
i thought it very inapproiate going out today to knock on doors trying to get converts..
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Scully
I wonder if he and his family would partake if you cooked them a nice big Christmas dinner?
You wouldn't have to *call* it a "Christmas" dinner - just turkey is on sale and all the fixin's too and the leftover sandwiches are soooo yummy! and the turkey soup from scratch... oh my!!
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Need Advice about Grandparents/Blood Doctrine
by SnailsPace2 inmy in-laws are taking my little boy to a different state for small trip and the want me to create a document stating they are allowed to take him over state lines.
which is fine.
my husband would like for me to construct the document and include information concerning medical decisions and that they are only to be made after contacting the parents.
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Scully
To answer your question, a document pertaining to your child's health care decisions should be worded something like this:
My son/daughter, (insert name here), is temporarily visiting their grandparents, (insert names here), from (start date Day/Month/Year) to (end date Day/Month/Year).
In the event of a medical emergency, my child's well being and life are of the utmost importance. We can be reached at any time by cell phone at (###) ###-#### to be kept informed of my child's condition and to grant consent for any medical procedures that may be required.
My child's current medications are:
(medication name, dosage, taken x# times daily) [repeat for each medication your child uses]My child is allergic to: (list allergies, especially medications like antibiotics, and include food allergies)
This document is in effect for the duration of (child's name) visit with (grandparents' names), (restate dates above).
Your printed name and signature
Your husband's printed name and signature
Dated this (date, month, year) at (your city of residence).
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Under no circumstances should you relinquish your decision making rights on behalf of your child to anyone else. In this day and age, where instant communication is possible via cellular phone, there is no reason whatsoever to give that right away to someone who might make a well-intentioned but poorly informed choice that you yourself would not make on your child's behalf.
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Need Advice about Grandparents/Blood Doctrine
by SnailsPace2 inmy in-laws are taking my little boy to a different state for small trip and the want me to create a document stating they are allowed to take him over state lines.
which is fine.
my husband would like for me to construct the document and include information concerning medical decisions and that they are only to be made after contacting the parents.
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Scully
Are you certain that your inlaws wouldn't use a legal document like that to potentially get you in hot water with the Elders™, especially if you put in writing that you consent to your son receiving blood transfusions if deemed medically necessary?
Are you certain that your inlaws would even respect such instructions related to your son's medical care in the event it was medically necessary?
To be perfectly honest, I would NOT permit a child of mine to have unsupervised time alone with JW grandparents, unless I was a JW myself and agreed 100% with their teachings and doctrines. When you are "fading", Inactive™ or attempting to distance yourself from the JW religion, allowing an impressionable child to have unsupervised access with JW grandparents or other JW relatives who might feel they have a 'mission' to save them from your 'reckless' course of action (i.e., Leaving The Truth™) is asking for trouble.
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Shunning: How would You Overcome it?
by ABibleStudent inafter reading the thread soon to be 18 and quit speaking to her mother- suggestions?, i started thinking of how to use the wtbts's doctrine to help jws to see what is the real purpose of shunning for the wtbts.
hopefully, some good ideas will be posted to this thread and may help exjws and jws to maintain relationships with each other instead of shunning the non-jws.. how would a jw react to the following?.
do christians shun or not associate with non-jws to help non-jws believe that the wtbts has the "truth", to keep the cong clean of non-believers, or to not be shunned?
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Scully
You overcome it by not participating in it. They are the ones required by the WTS to shun ex-JWs and there ought to be consequences for such behaviour. The opposite (ex-JWs shunning JWs) is not a requirement - to do so would be to endorse the behaviour and participate in it, and even worse, it endorses the WTS's claim of authority over the ex-JW.
They want to shun you and your spouse, the parents of your children? Then they don't get the privilege of associating with your children and being allowed to treat their ex-JW parent with disrespect (and thereby set an example of disrespecting their parents). If they want to have their grandchildren / nieces / nephews in their lives, they have to behave in a manner that sets an example of acceptance, love and tolerance of everyone, including people whose opinion on religious matters differs from their own.
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They all laughed when I insisted that the Yellowstone caldera was a threat...
by Nathan Natas instrangely enough, jesus never warned that "there will be wars and rumors of wars, but if the yellowstone caldera blows, we're toast.".
...and jesus' composite bride through the pages of the watchtower, never suggested that deeply-dipped dubs ought to move out of the area downwind of yellowstone, lest they be transformed in the twinkling of an eye into crispy monoliths.. but up here in the uadna orbiting space platform, things are different.
we're rational.
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Scully
After a long and deafening public silence, UADNA finally speaks!
How I have missed UADNA bulletins!
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Scully
They are wonderful when they leave me alone. ;)
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My brother died yesterday
by satinka in"albert" was 55 years old, and the fifth-born of seven children.
i am the second oldest and babysat him often while he was growing up --- and while i was still at home.. yesterday, albert was out taking his usual morning stroll around his small town, when he collapsed on the sidewalk.
the doctors said it was a heart attack.
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Scully
So sorry for your loss, satinka. While Ottawa wasn't nearly as cold as Manitoba was yesterday, your beautiful tribute to your brother warmed my heart.
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Ladies, How Big Is Your Diamond Engagement Ring?
by minimus ini notice a trend that suggests that many ladies either have a one carat or bigger diamond ring or much smaller if any.. do you have a diamond ring and if you do, what size carat is it?
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Scully
The old fashioned way of deciding how much to pay for an engagement ring was two months' the gentleman's salary. Then it went to three months.
It seems to have evolved into much more than that. Personally, I don't like big flashy or gaudy jewellry - I prefer understated and elegant.
You in the market for one, minimus?
To answer your question, mine is a small cluster, probably no more than 0.2 ct. I love it.
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The Gall Of WT To Give This Advice To Pioneers:
by JW GoneBad inthis past week's wt study lesson was entitled: 'pioneering strengthens our relationship with god'.. under the subheading 'remaining in the full-time service' in par 14 the wt has the nerve to give this admonition to pioneers: .
'desiring to learn from jesus' example, a pioneer does well to keep in mind that the more material things he has, the more he will have to maintain , repair, or replace.'.
i don't think the gb or anyone in the writing department has the freedom to speak on giving adivce on the matter of 'material things' given the fact that wt has close to a billion dollars in real estate and loads of money in various bank accounts; given the fact that gb is currently building themselves new living quarters with who knows what sort of comforts and other amenities.
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Scully
Considering the individuals in the Writing Department™ have *everything* provided for them, I agree that it's incredibly nervy of them to try to lecture Pioneers™ about enjoying the material things they have - and likely scrimped and saved for - especially when most of them followed the Writing Department™'s advice to stay away from higher education in order to enjoy a better standard of living.