.....but similar attacks on gay people in the last couple months were allowed to continue. I see this as an unfortunate double standard. Why is NAMBLA always brought up on threads about homosexuality.....?
As a gay exJW, let me try to field this portion of your question.
As you know, Jehovah's Witnesses teach that homosexuality is "an abomination", "detestable", and other similar synonyms. As recently as 1997, Watchtower publications have said that homosexuality is caused by demon possession. Other Watchtower articles continue to propagate the myth that homosexuality is somehow associated with pedophilia and/or beastiality. Unfortunately, the majority of the flock are drawn into the Society's homophobia simply because "it says so in the Watchtower".
As exJWs, many who have exited the Organization retain a certain degree of their old belief system, simply because no one has shown them an alternative view in a reasonable, logical manner. It is not that such explanations aren't out there - they are! The "A Common Bond" web site at http://www.gayxjw.org/ contains a wealth of information regarding gay & lesbian former Jehovah's Witnesses, as well as explanations on what the Bible really has to say about homosexuality.
Nevertheless, there are those whose mindset remains behind the walls of the Watchtower. Others, having exited the Witnesses, have simply joined other religions which teach similar misconceptions about homosexuality.
I have engaged in innumerable private discussions over the years with heterosexual exJWs regarding homosexuality and the Bible. Those with an open mind are willing to leave their homophobia at the door and engage in reasonable discussion.
Sorry to say that there are still too many out there who take Biblical mistranslations at face value and are unwilling to listen to reason. I find that these people fall into one of two categories:
(1) They have traded the JW belief system for another equally restrictive system which demands condemnation of those not willing to conform to their ideologies.
(2) Some individuals suffer from internalized homophobia. Unable to come to terms with their own sexuality, they lash out at those of us who have achieved self-acceptance.