((Terry)):
I know surgery is a scary process. When I had surgery I explained my fears to my doctor. Including the feelings regarding blood. He suggested that I store my own blood, if I had concerns. I felt better having that option even though I did not need it. It made the process eaiser for me.
When you get out of surgery you will be groggy, disoreintated and thirsty! But it will pass, the nurses will be there and many (that I had) were wonderful in helping me.
The one thing I am going to suggest for preparation:
Recover and Comfort Pillows:
www.bodyblockers.com The "Abduction Pillow"
One person suggested a walkie talkie w/ charger so people did not have to hover over her.
Lots of books, magazines, etc.
www.dr.leonards.com ** this I will recommend for other things too. The things I list are found here and I will put a ** beside them. You may wish to "stockpile" now so you have it.
A "Gopher" reacher because there are things you will need but cannot access.
A long handled sponges
Safety grip handles for your tub**
Bath Chairs **
Hanging basket
Hand Basket so you don't have to make multiple trips.
Crockpot so you can have easy meals.
Precooked and frozen meals ahead of time, so it is easier on everyone.
Gold Bond Medicated lotion for the itchy feelings.
Places to find the pillows, the sock cones, the shoe horns, bed blocks, elastic shoe strings to transform regular comfortable tie shoes into slip ons, elevated toliet seats, etc.
www.hipandknees.com
www.makemeheal.com
www.arthritissupplies.com
"The Wright Stuff"
www.caregiverproducts.com is a good resource too.
Wishing you the best.
Xandria