Nowisee,
You responded naturally. The problem is the JWs do not interact with nature response. As you observed, they flee.
If we are to help damaged people we have to revert to the damaged persons perspective. This is hard to do. Situations confront us and we want to react as a real person (as you did) but "real" doesn't work here.
It is a theraputic challenge. But don't be ashamed of reacting as a normal person. That is . . . NORMAL. If we are to help these people, as I hope all want to, one must THINK AS A JW. Respond like a JW and give them only a glimse of reality by questions and reluctant response to their questions.
A crashing dose of reality drives them desperately back to their fantasy.
Jst2laws