ON THE WAY OUT- Happy Thanksgiving to you friend ! We'll have to catch up this weekend . Good points you make. Depending on WHICH kids parents are exiting yes indeed teenage children who may be hating the JW experience anyway will be really glad when one parent exits the JW cult as it gives them a reason to exit. The problem with that working all the time with young folks is like what happened in my case - I exited the cult cold turkey and my fanatic JW ex-wife used it as an opportunity to try turning all 3 of my teenagers against me claiming that, " your dad is rebellious because he is disagreeing with the elders and not being obedient to Jehovah. " So from then on in late 2003 onward my two daughters started shunning me.
JW's are some of the most manipulative, deceitful people I know on the planet who use circumstances to turn friends and family against one another- I know as I have lived it. But as you say leaving cold turkey IS a good thing for the person leaving AND if the JW teenagers are ready to leave as well- but it can have a reverse effect too. And go the other way.
As you mention getting away from the " thought control speeches " is essential to freeing one's mind from the WT Society scummy dross teachings and mind manipulation. I'm glad we are free ! Take care, Peace out, Mr. Flipper