DA yourself is the preferred method the elders would rather have. ( No work involved ). If they have to DF you, its a process, and thats more hard work on their part. If you have to go to a JC meeting, you get a chance to face them and hopefully say whats on your mind. Most likely you will get DF'd anyway, but at least you can go out with a bang!
PS. Tape it if you can. We can all use the laugh.