Here 's something I noticed ex-jws often go through, in terms of phases.
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What are the phases on a cult exit journey?
by Fernando infor reasons i am still trying to fully understand and explain i was not able to properly pinpoint, identify and name the phases of my cult exit journey as i was going through them.
now i feel the need to even more.. some phases that came to mind this morning for me:.
identity crisis (who am i, what do i believe).
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Athiests: Do you ever wonder... what if?
by toweragent ini'll start by saying, i'm a ministerial servant who is trapped in the religion.
my wife is hardcore...but i've slowly been getting her to lighten up, so i'll take it!
all my friends and family are jw's, and i am employed by a jw (who is actually a great boss).
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rebel8
toweragent: I'm at such a crossroads... I don't know if God exists or not.
It's brave to accept uncertainty.
But then I hear comments like: "Ignore the bible, only listen to the words of Jesus."
How does anyone even know who Jesus is without the bible? If we don't believe the entire surrounding text, why believe cherry picked quotes of Jesus written down after his death, frequently by people who didn't even meet him?
The lack of quotes condemning something, for example, homosexuality, is not impressive IMO. He said he didn't have time to teach them everything but more would be revealed with time and through his other followers. Does his silence on something equal condoning it? If so then I guess pedophilia and snorting cocaine is fine too.
(For the record, I do NOT believe homosexuality is morally wrong, and I have lobbied FOR gay marriage. I just don't understand the use of the bible to support that position.)
Jesus defined marriage as between a man and a woman. While he's on the subject, he could have mentioned man and man/woman and woman too. That would have saved millions of people from hate crimes, discrimination, etc. for doing something that is quite natural for them (born that way) and harms nobody. 1-2 lines in a speech one day and he could have saved the world so much pain and violence.Jesus lied too.
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Jim Penton's beloved wife Marilyn died today.
by AndersonsInfo inher suffering is finally over.
marilyn has been battling cancer for about three years and at times it looked like she would win.
but in the last few months the cancer spread.
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Is is right to leave your job for the WT? In an assembly interview
by skin inwe had an assembly part here 6 months ago where a sister was interviewed by the co because she left her job to do more wt work, she talked about some jobs that she had recently been offered with good pay but turned these down.
most listening to this is would be thinking that this sister is being blessed by jehovah for taking this stand, how much faith she has to do this and what can we do personally with our own jobs, made me almost feel guilty for having a job.
anyway come forward 6 months to now, this family has had to move to another region because the husband couldnt find enough work to support his family here.
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rebel8
'course it's possible the story given in the interview was bunk. I was told to lie on the platform about being offered a scholarship and turning it down. Truth was, I never was allowed to apply for scholarships or take college entrance exams, which is generally required in order to be offered a scholarship. And you'd have to ask yourself why all these dubs do that only to turn it down when offered.
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Did you see me at Montreal, Blue Bonnets, in the 1970's? I was after your daughter
by Quarterback inoh the foolishness of youth.
there i was assigned to parking at the district assembly in montreal.
i was single, and in the full-time service.
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rebel8
I went to an international assembly in Montreal. I want to say it was around 1977.
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Coloring book activity for kids: Lot's wife dying
by rebel8 inomg.
would you have your kids do this activity?
so messed up.. .
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rebel8
omg. Would you have your kids do this activity? So messed up. Click the link to see the entire pic. Do mainstream religions do stuff like this?
I'd like to make an adult connect-the-dots activity for dubs.
- Connect the dots between the year Jerusalem actually fell and 1914--the dots never connect.
- Connect the dots between the flow of logic--they just keep going in a circle.
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Coloring book activity for kids: Lot's wife dying
by rebel8 inomg.
would you have your kids do this activity?
so messed up.. .
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rebel8
omg. Would you have your kids do this activity? So messed up. Click the link to see the entire pic. Do mainstream religions do stuff like this?
I'd like to make an adult connect-the-dots activity for dubs.
- Connect the dots between the year Jerusalem actually fell and 1914--the dots never connect.
- Connect the dots between the flow of logic--they just keep going in a circle.
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Banner seen at convention in Miami
by Indian Larry incomments?.
[img]http://i59.tinypic.com/dfx6y9.jpg[/img].
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rebel8
Putting the apocalyptic thing aside for a moment, this banner says Jehoopla's Marvelous Land of Pet Lions TM is 99% here already.
99% here already.
What a loving god he is, creating such a universe filled with suffering, death, wickedness, pain, evil, sickness, terror and selfishness. Only 1% to load and it will be 100% here.
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Did you see me at Montreal, Blue Bonnets, in the 1970's? I was after your daughter
by Quarterback inoh the foolishness of youth.
there i was assigned to parking at the district assembly in montreal.
i was single, and in the full-time service.
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rebel8
Acceptable, maybe. But not attractive. Just sayin'.
Srsly, I don't know what Blue Bonnets has to do with Montreal? Is it a place or something? Or do they serve lots of margarine?
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The Deepak Chopra Random Quote Generator
by cofty inthis computer program generates random quotes that sound just like actual chopra woo woo.... what gem do you get to guide you through life today?.
i got .... "death fascinates the progressive expansion of excellence"something to think about!.
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rebel8
"Your body is the womb of deep acceptance"
"Mice are plants"
"Making tea explains subjective sensations"
"The cosmos experiences reckless potentiality"
"Your heart is an ingredient of mortal balance"