Hambeak,
I'm sorry that you had to endure such abuse. I can't imagine why he thinks he has the authority to order a whole group of people off this board. It sounds like this man has some deep psychological issues that need to be addressed.
I feel sorry for him as he is very unhappy. I think he has closeted feelings that are tearing him apart. Just lets give him some compassion.
I'm touched that you are able to show such compassion to this man. You sound like a really great person and I'm glad that you are on this board. :)