I think anyone who's ever been a jw has HAD to wonder about those things.
I guess whenver I've thought about it, I've narrowed it down to one of two things.
One is that God is a cognizant being that doesn't live in a red or blue state. It has the option to simply exist, while everybody argues about how they all want to believe in this same wonderful thing. And maybe if it were to ever have anything consequential to do with humanity, it would be when everyone stops acting like kids on a playground that can't get along with eachother, and he wouldn't have to worry about coming off as a favoritist. Non Partisan God would work okay with me.
Second is that maybe God is simply the pursuit of unity. God is the ideal of a species that hasn't realized it's own motion towards the best kind of strength in numbers - when everybody plays for the same team and cuts out all the trite bs that divides us. My God could beat up your God, my Acura is 2 months newer than yours, a 6 foot tv could change my life - maybe God is just this mutually shared idea in all cultures that there is something more to life than adversity and death, and maybe that something noone realizes is the subconscious desire for simple unity. There you go. Collective subconscious? My college psych theory professor would be psyched (or maybe hate it...)
Maybe this is why my friends call me a hippie sometimes?