Posts by HappyDad

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Former JW's on Ankerberg show Sun Oct.16-2011

by koolaid-man in

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http://www.ankerberg.com/ should be good.... 6 part series..

HappyDad

I watched the show today on channel 40 in Pittsburgh. It was very good as all of Ankerberg's shows are. I then scheduled the follow up shows to be recorded on the DVR.

Joan Cetnar still looks very good for her age and it was nice to see Doc Bob on the show also.

The only thing I felt was wrong was when Joan said the WT also predicted 1995 as another date for the end of this system.

All in all, if any JW was watching (as I did years ago and had my mind challenged) they would have to THINK! Unless they are so brain numbed that they couldn't comprehend anything, they would watch more and start to research.

HappyDad

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Secret Elders Meetings & Armaggedon Checklists from FDS ...

by Hairyhegoat in

the faithful slave has put out a list of things they think jw's should have on hand, due to the closeness of armaggedon.

if jw's dont have such a list they can ask their local elders for a copy of such.... .

does anyone know about such a list ???.

HappyDad

What the heck? Decades ago we were told that all we needed was Jehovah's organisation, the Bible, and belief that the angels would deliver us from any and everything that came against us "true" believers.

Hmmmmm.....guess reality has hit Brooklyn or wherever they are hiding now!

HappyDad

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I've lurked a long time: JW's produce some of the most paranoid humans

by Unlearn in

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i'll keep this brief for now.. long time lurker (4 years or so).. born-in, elder, used on district level (last talk i gave before i left was the baptisimal talk), and lots of hard time put in...before i finally made the move to split.

it's a long stoy, much like many of yours...but with it's own little interesting twists.

more details in the future, perhaps.. as i said, ive lurked here for a while.. its funny: for a long time i'd only come on late at night.

HappyDad

After reading all of Unlearn's posts so far......all I can say is WOW! This reminds me so much of myself that it is uncanny. Thanks Unlearned for being so forthright. It has been awhile since this forum has had someone come forward with the openness that you have put here.

You are what makes this forum keep us coming back to see what is happening with the rank and file lurkers such as you have been....and as I was at one time.....and as many others have been.

Much of your story reminds me and brings back memories of what I used to be......an elder just like you putting up with the same stuff!

Thankfully, I've been out for over 10 years now and I need these reminders from time to time.

I wish you success in your new life and thank you for sharing.

Keep telling us more. You are an excellent writer...something I am not able to do.

God bless you and your family.

HappyDad

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told my parents to never ever tell me they love me again....

by oompa in

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...i told them in a very serious sitdown in their living room....said..."because if you cant show it then it does not count...that is not real love no matter who tells you it is....because it is how it makes me feel that determines if it is love....not if you just say it...and me and my sons do not feel that love at all now"....and i stayed calm and talked slowly and barely shed a tear as i held them back...and i had asked them to not say a word but just listen...dad said they would as long as it was not about religion as i knew he would.

this was two of the worst days of my life in a row..i told them the pain me and my boys feel from their shunning is worse than if they had died...that then i could grieve naturally and move on because that is normal....grief helps you cope...my grief is different because they choose to act like i am dead and normal grief does not seem to work on that.

i shared an epiphany with them i had about mens rules vs gods great idea of dna (but no i am not sure about a god anymore)it went kinda like this:.

HappyDad

I'm sad that you have to go through this Oompa and my thoughts are with you. Let's hope that something sticks with them to crack their thinking process.

HappyDad

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passing a resolution

by stillin in

is that not one of the most hellish things performed during the service meetings?.

HappyDad

I remember one elder back in the 1980's who voted no to a resolution about money going for something. He made a valid point that the amount was way more than our "poor" congregation could afford without the rest of us emptying our wallets. He was put down and alway looked at as a trouble maker for not being agreeable. He remained an elder until his death in the late 1990's but the rest of them never trusted. I got along just fine with him until I fled that cong. in 1997.

HappyDad

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Rutherford residences

by Gorbatchov in

i am searching for information about the residences of joseph rutherford during his watchtower presidency.

san diego (beth sarim & beth shan) is well known.. i seek information about his residence at staten island (rossville?

) and especially more about rumours about a luxery central.

HappyDad

Hmmmm......JFR was no different than the greedy TV evangelists of today who live in their multi-million dollar homes and have private jets provided by their ministries. Quite a few of the modern day charlatans have their families running the entire financial enterprise so no one can question when the $$$$$ raises are made to each and every one of them.

A few of them who come to mind are Creflo Dollar, Joyce Myers, Jesse Duplantis, John Hagee, Rod Parsley, Kenneth Copeland, Joel Osteen, Paula White and others. The biggest thief of them all is Peter Poppov.

As long as the fools send money in the name of the lord, these people will reap fortunes. J. F. Rutherford must have been one of the forefathers of this money movement.

Just Google the individual name. "so and so's house" and you will be amazed at the extravagance.

HappyDad

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Soldier Surprises His Son in School Cafeteria

by leavingwt in

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"on september 15, united states soldier matthew peters surprised his son while he was eating lunch at his elementary school.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kskgtcg9f_o.

HappyDad

strymeckirules,

I guess you are one of those a..holes who has never felt the love of a father. Your comment is totally absurd. Do you know anything about family love or natural affection? Probably not!

Most likely his father "had" to leave because of his military affiliation. He left so that a..holes like you can live free.

Get a life,

HappyDad

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A warning for all from Totally ADD

by TotallyADD in

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it has been four days since i have been on jwn.

because i am not as young as i used to be.

as many know my wife and i are opening up a donut store.

HappyDad

TADD,

I know the feeling. I've done a lot of hard physical work in my life but the past years just find me in front of a computer in my consulting job. In a few months I will go on Medicare. That 65 figure is looming ever closer. I'm still somewhat strong but constantly gaining weight and feeling less robust these days. A hard days work would most likely lay me up for awhile.

HappyDad

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What's The Worst Thing About Ever Having Been A Jehovah's Witness?

by minimus in

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for me, it's the waste of precious time and being lied to.. stupid time consuming things to do that are utterly worthless!

and on top of that being told that you were going to live forever on paradise if you followed their decrees..

HappyDad

Thirty plus wasted years of burning gasoline just to count time in FS knocking on doors and hating every minute of it. (there were a few good calls) Thirty plus wasted years of feeling like an outsider everywhere except the KH and never having any real friends, just conditional ones. One of the worst thing of all was denying my daughter a college education (she had to turn down scholarships) just so our family wouldn't stumble any of the condemning JW's we were associated with. In my early years of being a JW, I still had time to use my VA benefits to get some education for myself but didn't because the system was ending in 1975. (sheesh)!

And now that I know.....I guess I should add that it was thirty plus years of being taught falsehoods and believing most of them until the doubts started in a little at a time. I could think of many more worst things but I should stop at this.

HappyDad

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My Father passed away during the night

by jwfacts in

dad was a great man, great, despite the religion.

he was powerful, tall and intelligent, yet humble and kind.

he was an introvert, and a circuit overseer.

HappyDad

JWFacts,

So sorry to hear this! Losing a loved one is never easy. I'm just glad that you had somewhat of a relationship with your Dad. My heartfelt condolences go to you and yours.

Dang......he was young! I guess because I'm now 64 that this kind of loss hits me.Hoping I have more years left to spend with my daughter....the only family that loves me since leaving the JW's.

HappyDad