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  Another concern

  by lazuli in

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  i know i know, i'm so sorry to bug you guys about this but for obvious reasons i can't talk about it with anyone from the congregation and you guys are familiar with the watchtower.

  in the watchtower, the woman is expected to be 'chaste.

  ' so i'm worried that if i decide to marry someone that is a jw if what i did before will be a problem.

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  Guilty conscience

  by lazuli in

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  my ex-bf is a baptized jw, i've been studying for about ten months already and i'm about to start in the school.

  when we were together, we were very intimate, there was never any penetration, but there was pretty much everythings besides that.

  not that its anyone's business but this included oral sex and such.

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  Intimacy

  by lazuli in

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  my ex-bf and i, he's a baptized jw and i'm a study, never had sex during our relationship.

  however, we dis have intimacy, meaning that we did everythin else but penetration, i know how bad this sounds, but we really did do anything you could do without there being penetration, so we were very intimate.

  i remeber that when we got together in the first place he mentioned to me once that he wouldn't have dated me if i wasn't a virgin.

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  Doubts

  by lazuli in

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  i'm an 18 year old girl, i started studying with the jws 9 months ago.

  i was dating a guy that was a jw and i chose that i also wanted to study.

  we were together for 2 years and broke up four months ago.

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  interfaith dating

  by lazuli in

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  2. beliefs

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  what are the consequences of dating outside your faith and keeping the relationship hidden?

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