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Hugs To Talesin
by one_ugly_time in((( talesin ))) ---.
sending hugs your way.... for today, and every other day that you may need them... .
one ugly time
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Are You Emotionally dependent?
by one_ugly_time ini have been lurking for some time, and have learned an awful lot (most of it awful) about how i was raised... this is a wonderful website... .
i just found newbies!
everything you wanted to know but were afraid to ask by jgnat... this is a great thread, which leads to a wealth of information.
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My parents are out...
by one_ugly_time ini have finally confirmed that my parents da'd about 2 years ago.
they haven't told me or talked to me about it.
i found out through my aunt, and confirmed it through my oldest brother who was just visiting them.. it's a big step in the right direction.
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Should I send Xmas Cards to JW family? Open for debate.
by one_ugly_time ini say yes.. really, what is wrong with it?
is it morally or ethically wrong?
is it against your conscience?
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Lost Childhood -> PTSD -> Lost Adulthood
by one_ugly_time inwhen i read the title of the thread ?was your growth stunted because you were a jehovah?s witness?, i posted a version of the following while extremely emotional.
not taut, very loosely, as if it feels like a necklace.
you see, i am growing and the cord is getting taut now.
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I can't keep up...
by one_ugly_time inthank you all for all the great info.
the list of great posters on this site is much too long for me to remember.
i have searched and read quite a bit and recently decided to post and add a few of my thoughts and dry humor.
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Nudist colony for JW's ?!
by one_ugly_time ini found this story at --.
http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&cid=1517&e=1&u=/afp/us_nudist_offbeat.
first christianity-themed nudist resort to open in florida thu jan 22, 1:30 pm etadd offbeat - afp to my yahoo!.
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Paradoxal nature of change...
by one_ugly_time ini was just noticing.... i want to spend more time with my children.... so i end up spending less time while i look for a job that will allow me more time.. i want a more consistent daily life so that i can go back to school.... so life because chaos while the schedules/events/activities are rearranged to support this.. i want better, deeper, more fulfilling friendships in my life.... so i end up with no one to turn to momentarily as i cultivate this change.. we want violence to stop in the world.... so we create more violence destroying the perpetrators before that is possible.. that is why i find goal setting and reflection so important for myself.
many times, i get 1/2 through a change and feel like i've taken 10 steps backward and can't figure out what i'm doing wrong... just as often, i'm not doing anything wrong, just forgetting momentarily the burden i placed upon myself or others in order to make the change possible... .
can you think of other changes you have tried to make that seem to take you in the wrong direction?.
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Online Forums/Newsletters/Support...
by one_ugly_time inafter replying earlier today, i realized that i read a few on-line forums for various reasons... besides this one, i also read --.
http://www.seducersworld.com/ :: a very different outlook on social seduction.
reading through this, it shows how individuals are easily persuaded once someone has emotionally engaged you; regardless of their emotional engagement - only the insinuation or inference of such.