Hi sorry to hear that he won't even answer the phone. Why not call from a number he won't know then he will answer, I know it's sneeky but you never know
My mum is still in the dubs but calls on the kids birthdays to say hi and that she is thinking about them, I'm sure she would like to join in but hey it's hard when you're brain belongs to someone else
Take care and keep hoping not sure what these guys mean but it looks like a hug
BM