Sherry:
Ross I am so sorry that your experience here in my beautiful part of the world brought on this conversation.
It brought it to the fore of my mind, but it's something I've been meaning to ask for a while.
You know, this is a situation I have been in before. Usually I have no qualms about setting someone in their place and have done so effectively.
Likewise.
Jeez, they pretty much all look the same!!
Ironic, isn't it?
Ballistic:
I didn't realise we were talking about a real situation.
How would that change anything?
I'm still trying to grapple with why there should be a difference, be it theoretical or actual. Can you elaborate for me?
Xena:
It's interesting how when it happens to a man people tend to blow it off or minimize it... (etc).
This is what I'm trying to grapple with.
Robyn:
It used to be that if a man got fresh, a woman could slap him.
So, should a man slap a woman in such a situation???
This is why I asked what would be appropriate recourse. I suspect that such a course of action would be frowned upon by onlookers, if a man did it. More double-standards?
I didn't stick around in the crowded hotel room long enough to see how you handled it.....
I politely, but firmly, asked them to desist and they did.
This is one reason that I say that it's been on my mind for a while.
SpecialK:
I guess folks forget that this is probably one reason a knife worn in the sock is still publically acceptable with this form of national dress. It puts a new slant on "right to bear arms", huh?
Besides, I needed something to open the haggis with...
Andi:
I know there are gray areas, but when the person says "stop" then there is no more gray, IMO.
I guess it's the grey areas that I want to explore. In the recent case (that folks seem intent on) it was painted black several times, but I really don't want to dwell on that. That's not truly the reason I started the thread.