I have been on the sideline reading this thread for some time. I am new to THIS board, but have been engrossed in a tragedy of sorts, of my own, regarding my youngest son. So, that has been a reason, I have not commented thusfar.
In as much pain as I thought I was feeling, I must say, I cannot imagine what your feeling. Do not even know words that would suffice. Many have properly expressed their sympathies, so I will not duplicate. All I will say is, I am sorry for what has happened and God bless the children and you.
Gator