Ravyn, funny you should mention fraud. I do have another angle --- he and his crazy first wife got a 24-hour internet Mexican divorce before we were married. He and I married in Nevada, and they don't require you to show proof of prior divorce, so everything went through. I had assumed when he said he was divorced that he was legally divorced. I just checked this out since he left and I have found that it is completely invalid. Neither of them even went to Mexico, just ordered the divorce online - Mexico had no jurisdiction - its all a scam. Technically, he is guilty of bigamy and I intend to use that against him as well.