I was going to add. If you have the means to escape this terrible religion, please do so.
p.s.When I use the term ''means'', I was referring to the emotional strength required to have to leave. The guilting from immediate family, drop in visits by elders eventually. The strain on someone mentally can seem insurmountable. Combined the stress from everyday life, such as work stress, on top of it all is much!!!
That's why an extremely slow fade is the only option at times.