That 1995 Generation thing was the last straw for me as well. Running a close second was the Witness ridiculous attitude towards people with decent jobs/careers. It seemed so senseless to me and I just had to ignore it, which I'm glad I did.
I also saw what you saw about double standards whereby certain people were viewed in a better light and it wouldn't matter what they did. If I had remained there, it is highly likely I might have smacked one of the sisters. I also wasn't humoring anybody who claimed to be anointed.
I refused to be targeted to do favors. These idiots who criticized me for working weren't getting the time of day from me.
There was too much garbage and obstacles there and I didn't want any dealings with anybody. For many reasons it's just as well I'm out.