elders wife swapping question

by unstopableravens 67 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • ScenicViewer

    In the 1980s the Society made the admission that such things do happen.

    (W 1-1-1986 p13, par12)

    12 Shocking as it is, even some who have been prominent in Jehovah’s organization have succumbed to immoral practices, including homosexuality, wife swapping, and child molesting.

  • jam

    My experience, while serving where the need is great, the wife

    and I in our mid 20's. Two couples move in for one month. Soon

    after arriving they invited the wife and I for the evening. The two

    couples were much older then the wife and I. Soon after and a few

    drinks the conversation turn sexual. We both(the wife and I) felt very

    uncomfortable. They were both elders, I was a MS. We excused ourselves

    and left. A few days later they left, they didn,t stay for the whole month.

  • unstopableravens

    mrsjones: how would they bring it up "you know i was working with your wife in service brother and i think she needs some privite counsel" i mean its crazy how can the idea be brought out to another elder.

  • designs

    Its all starts in a Jacuzzi

  • jam

    It,s easy for elders. If there is a problem in the marriage who do

    you go too, Elders. Elders go to elders for advice. So if there is

    a problem of the nature(sexual) it makes it easy. A fellow elder

    had no desire for his wife, he told me. She also told me and it had been

    years. In that case, he wonted out of the marraige. The point is that

    elders are privleged to that information. That,s the main reason why elders

    are DF.

  • perfect1

    one thing leads to another. Not hard to believe.

  • eva luna
    eva luna

    I know for a fact that this happens. But it was just RF couples.

    The Elders knew and just let it slide. Hmmm?

  • Honeybucket

    An older sister told me in her previous hall during the 80's there was wifeswapping severe drunkness and perhap drug usage. Soon after there was a CO visit and he disbanned the hall, saying the it has AIDS and closing the hall will be the cure. Everyone involved, according to the seester, about 75% of the hall was involved and thats why they closed it.

    Im not completely convinced of this story. Women love to gossip and play the telephone game, this rumor probably started as something not so sinister, then the orginal rumor elvolves into urban legend

  • blondie

    I always wondered why this is called wife swapping? It makes the women seem like property to be exchanged. Why not husband swapping?

  • james_woods
    I always wondered why this is called wife swapping? It makes the women seem like property to be exchanged. Why not husband swapping?

    From what I have seen of it - that is exactly the way it works. It usually starts as a male fantasy - using the wife as a sales tool to get the deals made. It is interesting to note that single women are welcome at "swingers clubs", but men have to attend as a couple only.

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