girl, I feel you.
I hate it when they know you have a skill, welding, wood working, hair stylist, ect. Then they all start asking you to help them without paying for it or they pay the bare minimum. No I will not give you a 5 dolla hair cut.
There is a sister in the hall I went to that never ever came to meetings. She was at every social event though. If you extended your hand to help she would take a mile, not an inch. She wanted me to go get you elderly mom and her to go shopping. But first they had to visit for hours, then they decided they want to stop off at the coffee stand. We get to the grocery store and they take all damn day. When you take them back home they dont let you drop them off. You have to come inside and listen to all their stupid stories about their stupid boring lives.