Some others shun their 'loved' ones on the basis of any number of reasons.
People with Jesus do that too.
False beliefs are part of the reason we had that.
And yet you still use those false words whenever it suits you.
So that one is not tied and subject to some of the false teachings that have been taken from 'the bible'. Because men have used that book like a golden calf; and they have twisted it to say whatever they want it to say and to justify whatever they want it to justify. If, however, one looks to Christ... then some of those things are shown to be false.
So, exactly what you do. OK.
Dictionaries don't necessarily describe how something works... they describe what something is. (according to the knowledge of the people doing the describing)
Knowing what words actually mean helps. I recommend one to all Christians.