Thank you for your comments!!!
Farkel- come again? Oh. sorry, You said self-describing!!!!!!!!!! Yes! Succinctly said, Farkel!
Ziddinia- I understand what you are saying. When I asked myself the question, I was not thinking about the JW experience nor thru a Christian set of beliefs. It all was from the pain I felt as a child growing up in an abusive household and the experience of mistreatment. And from watching my mom die. I suppressed so much for so many years. I was always her rock. And all the love in my heart belonged to her. So much hurt in life, like many of you, but from a different source. That is why when I reread what I wrote, which came from my heart, I know that it is something hard to live up to. It is an ideal.It's applying the emotion of love into action. It's not perfect, but that is my expression of unconditional love. When I read 00Dad's comments- he applied the OP to his own pain and experience and what conditional love should not be and what it should. Z, I just want to ask you about your following statement: " I would not have "unconditional love" for ANYone or thing on the face of this planet. Nor would I expect someone else to have such "love" for me, as such "love" appears to be an epic FAIL when it comes to setting BOUNDARIES - and to respecting them." Have you ever hurt someone unintentionally? Did they still love you regardless of the pain or hurt? I would hope your answer is "Yes", but that may not have been anything you experienced in life. I just hope that you can have unconditional love for yourself. Z.
Sulla- Yes. You still love the person that you love and that doesn't mean that you agree with bad decisions and bad behavior. " People often confuse unconditional love with this idea of enabling. That is more nearly the opposite of love, since by your weakness, you would be harming the person you claim to love." I agree.
Talesin- Yes.That is the WTS way of love! " I will love you *if* you stay in the Truth TM , is a great example. Just complete the sentence "I will love you if ... " That is conditional love."