VAmp, I gave him that link twice, this is the third time, is he out?
I actually posted an answer for this on the wrong thread, although it fit there too. I just wanted to point out that your fear is not unusual and is not unique to the WT. Ex-pentecostals express the same fear. So do Mormons. Sometimes reading THEIR stories helps us understand that we are not unique. When we see their struggles it is easy for us to also see how WRONG their former religions were. So just FEARING that they are right, doesn't make them right.
Just before I made the decision to never go back to the KH, I started watching Big Love. The thing that disturbed me about the show were the similarities between their reasoning and JW reasoning. Of course it was just a drama, but they were drawing from real life attitudes. I thought "well if exactly the same attitudes and reasoning are being used in this false religion, could mine be false?"
It really has helped me to look at other high control groups. It reminds me there is nothing new under the sun. Check out the ex-pentecostal sites if godrulz ever tempts you to listen to him. You'll see.