Snoozy - when my friend was in high school, she started having flashbacks about being abused by her father. I asked her about this recently, and now she claims it was never her father, it was her brother. Hrmmmm
The mindlessness of this "religion" really gets to me. "Men aren't perfect" is not an answer for anything!
My friend actually even wrote to me, "If I'm wrong, I haven't lost anything"... What the!! I find that simply mind-blowing! So she believes she's right but hey, if she's wrong, then nevermind... Her entire life will have been a lie, but whatever. (Insert emoticon banging head against wall)
I've had to keep the irritation I feel out of all correspondence with my friend, of course. I remain friendly, open and interested.