You and a couple of others gave me what I needed. It was a sound idea, and I really appreciate it.
I based my question also on what my dad said along time ago.
"Men have feelings, too, and women should be nice about turning them down for dates and things like that."
I took it to heart and try to be careful to not hurt anyone's feelings.
I love my dad, and I imagine that other men can hurt just like he can.
I never noticed your lack of tact in your other posts.
My last comment on that last post was not directed at you.
Oh, and before I take my leave, all those other LIFE threads come from being around people all day, day in and day out, at work and at home (tenants all know each other and get together frequently for BBQ's and such).
I'm a people person, not a homebody. I'm naturally going to have socially alive issues to deal with and may need help in understanding and dealing with them.
THAT IS NOT A CRIME NOR AN INDICATION THAT I'M A HORRIBLE PERSON!
I've stated that ad infinitum all over those threads.
If people don't have helpful and tactful things to say on my threads, why bother reading and posting?