I've seen some crazy things too. But they are the exception, not the rule.
And that describes the entirety of humanity, not just the JWs. So the question has to be re-asked and pondered again: How are the JWs any more moral, kind, and loving than anyone else?
Experience says they're not.
Witnesses are sheltered within their own community and constantly told how wicked "Satan's world" is. It's a lie. People in the world are just like JWs. Some are scumbags. Others are wonderfully kind and loving.
I would reiterate the advice to keep on reading CoC, as well as all of jwfacts.com, freeminds.com, and Steve Hassan's "Combatting Cult Mind Control" and when you're finished with that, keep on reading whatever else you find of interest. Education is the enemy of the Watchtower.
In your initial post you asked to be proven wrong about this board being kind and loving (or something to that effect). A couple months ago one of the regular poster's computer died. Someone else who knows her posted a thread about it asking for help. In less than a day enough money was raised for a new computer.
You have to remember that this is an Internet message board with hundreds (thousands?) of participants from all over the world, all different backgrounds, all different ages. You're going to get diversity and with the connection to a mind-control cult like the WT you're going to get some lingering emotional issues such as resentment and anger. I'm constantly amazed that this board isn't a 24-7 bitch-fest and that there is as much civil conversation as there is.
That said, among all the various ex-JW boards on the Internet (this is just one of many), JWN is the most wild-west as far as tone goes, IMO. If you google and find some other boards, you may find them more focused, more Christian, more moderated, but you're not going to find one that's more fun.