You need to just leave it in Jehovah's hand and wait on him.
what was the worst advice given to you while you were a JW ?
that taking a second shift job would not be trusting in jehovah to support your family by missing those all important meetings.
A couple of mom's lady friends once told me:
"You live in your parent's basement, right? You should get a part time job and pioneer!"
If I did that, my non JW dad would have kicked my butt to the street and told me to do it on my own.
Even my mom told them that much.