well sylvia, i'm sorry for your experiences............. my mother has told me somy bad experiences from her day (including men purposely grabbing a girl in public for the sake that person would HAVE to marry him or be shamed without marriage for the rest of her life)..........
what we are trying to say is that morality is never fair, but to learn that the GOD of the bible made laws to allow this? (when humans are making laws 2000% better?) and (1 day on this board by humans has come up with dozens of better ways to punish and be fair?)
people need to be educated and giving others their personal rights HAS to be taught in the home, school, church.
peace out!